A lot of men want to know good questions to ask a girl. This is because they’ve been burned so many times in the past because they asked the wrong questions. Maybe they still feel the stinging slap that they got just because they unknowingly asked a rude and indecent question.
You have to know that women are like appliances. They have buttons and you have to know how to push these buttons so that they’ll be “turned on”. Turn them on and you already know what will happen.
The question is, how exactly do you push their buttons correctly? You have to ask the right questions! But first thing’s first. Usually, you have to proactively search for women. There are very few cases wherein a woman will come to you. It doesn’t matter if you know the right questions to ask if you don’t know where to meet women. You won’t be able to land a great date.
Here are some great places where you can meet women:
- Businesses (namely their staff)
- Sophisticated events like wine tasting events
- Local classes and activities
Sure, you can still meet a lot of women in bars. However, women in bars fully-expect to be hit on. You’ll lose the element of surprise which is very important when it comes to asking questions.
Here’s a good tip. You should ask a question in such a way that it’s not too obvious that you’re hitting on her. This way, you won’t get rejected at once. Remember, you usually just need to get a foot inside the door. Having a door slammed in your face before you can even start is something that you wouldn’t want.
Questions to Ask a Girl
Here’s a list of some great questions that you can ask a girl:
1. What did you do last summer?
Asking her what she did last summer is a harmless question. She will immediately put her guards down because she’ll feel that you’re just interested in how her summer went. Best of all, you’ll get a lot of takeaways. For example, you’ll know her hobbies. If she went camping and it shows from the way that she tells the stories that she enjoyed it, you can suddenly develop a love for camping and have something in common. If you do have camping stories, you can share them as well as soon as she’s finished. But remember, it’s all about her at this time. You just need to establish that you have something in common.
2. Let me guess, you love dogs?
Let’s put it this way. It’s either she loves dogs or not so you have a 50-50 chance that you’re correct. If she loves dogs, then she’ll be surprised and she’ll ask you how you knew. Then you can say something like she gives off that vibe of being a dog person. That’s more than enough to get her attention. But what if she hates dogs? She’ll also be interested to know why you thought that she’s a dog person.
3. Can I try on your glasses?
Again, another harmless question and there’s no reason for her to say no. If she asks why, just tell her that you like her glasses. As soon as you try it on, say something like “Does it look sexy on me like how it looks sexy on you?” It’s a little bit daring. But sometimes, you have to kick things up a notch.
4. Do you have any tattoos?
This is reserved for later on in the conversation. If she has tattoos, ask her if you can see them. Also, ask them what they mean.
These are just some questions. The important thing is for you to follow them up with more questions depending on where the conversation is going. With a little bit of practice, you’ll be a master at asking the right questions!